Saturday, March 24, 2007

LOVE

Love is a word that goes around everyday! but do people really knows how to love? and if so, why are there so many hurting people around? why are there so many broken hearts out there? what can people do to help this?

DIVORCE IN CHURCHES!

Why is it that we are having so much divorces in the churches today? What can be done? what are we doing about it? how do you feel about divorce in general? How do we get the message across? We need to do something about it!

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!

What is your opinion on sex before marriage? why should one indulge in sex before marriage? One of the draw backs for women is that if they allow men to try them out all the time, can you imagine how many men will have that one woman before she finally get a husband that will actually honour her in marriage? Todays society promotes sex before marriage, this notion, about can the person please you? would one not say, it is a lie from the pit of hell? One can argue the point. Lets say these people were virgins! how would they know the differents? wouldnt they just have to learn how to please each other from the beginning? so what is the big deal? is it not about learning how to please the one you love and want to spent quality time with? so then, what is this about testing the person first? how did this come about? how can it be stopped? There are always better ways of doing the right thing?

WHY DO TEENAGERS THINKS IT IS COOL TO HAVE SEX?

Is it cool for a teenager to have sex at such a tender age? What is wrong with being a virgin? why do you need to prove anything to peer pressure? Sometimes it is not even real, just a whole load of nonsense, but because it sounds too good to not be true. One needs to know their purpose in life and stay focus.

IS IT TOO LATE TO MAKE AN IMPACT?

On the way society view things, life in general? there is always another way.

WHY DO THE MAJORITY KEEP SILENT

Why is it that the majority of people are offended, don't like the way lots of things are done, but, still they keep silent? one would be so upset with situation, yet they just sit back almost as if turning a blind eye as they would say? because they do or say nothing, even thought they would like something to be done about it. Wouldn't it be better to do something about it?

JUST GETTING UPSET IS NOT ENOUGH!

If it is bad enought to get you upset you need to do something about it. What are you doing to make it better, if it make you so upset? these are some personal questions one need to ask themselves, to illiminate some of the everyday stress. If it is that bad, you need to find a way to resolve it, and make it better? but be careful! it need to be treated with kids gloves, if you want to have a good result. If it is so bad, the way to deal with it is to do good. You need some love, compassion, mercy, kindness, meekness, humbleness, selfcontrol and patience. With all of the above characters, you will find things getting better. When u administer these qualities, look at the result. You must work with all of these characters, if you need a good result, no matter how bad the situation is! good result will come.

HURTING BY SOMEONE YOU LOVE

FIRST OF ALL I NEED TO KNOW WHY ANYONE WOULD WANT TO HURT SOMEONE THEY SAY THEY LOVE.

What I cant understand is, why do we stay in the hurting relationship? Is it because we dont know what the next one is going to be like? Is it because one just keep hoping that things will get better? I suppose that when one is in a relationship, they want it to work, so they just keep hoping that it would. I know of a situation. The relationship was very abusive, physically, mentally and verbally, however, this young lady just kept hoping it would work. She discribed it as being the feeling of guit and shame to share her pain with the outsiders(meaning anyone that is not living in her home). The abuse kept going on for 9 long years and she could not leave. She was affraid to leave, to start over again, esespecially when she had young children. She was not working at the time, her main duties was a homemaker. She took care of her family. Most of her time was spent in her home. She loved her husband and family and she wanted to keep her home together. When she was not able to bear the pain anylonger, she had to eventually start over. I supposed, no one can stay on the outside and really say, why would anyone do that? I supposed one have to be there to know. There is a saying, "who feels it knows it". The only person that can really help or advise is someone who has already being there and can identify with their pain. The only person that can really help someone in this situation is you, yourself. the question is Do I deserve this? No. Is there someone out there that will love and care for me? Yes. Am I supposed to stay in an abusive relationship? No. What happen if I leave? you will get the person that is there for you, but you will have to let go of the hurting relationship and all its baggages to go into a new relationship. To get the things that belongs to you, you will have to let go off the things that dont belong to you.
Everyone has someone special out there that will love them back. YOU DO TOO.

WHAT MAKES MY MARRIAGE WORK?

One need to know that when they enter into a marital relationship, they should never enter with an expectation of any sort. Why because, of course you are entering from two different backgrounds. You will have to get to know each other, because even though one may be dating for years, when one actually decide to enter into a bonded relationship as marriage, its the beginning of a new world. Always do things to gether, communicate, ( Important, please note that :communication is an essential ingriedient in any type of relationship. Marital, frienship, intimate or otherwise, without communication, you don't really have a relationship. One is not a mind reader, so it is important to verbalize ones thoughts or feeling so the other person will know how to address your needs or your situation or simply to relate to one another), respect each other. Nurish your relationship as if it is a child. Always water it with love as if it is a plant and be considerate, "what would I like formyself" ok! do exactly the same to the other person. Never point fingers, there is alway another way to start a conversation, refer to a situation, or we, instead of you, I. What we could do, how we can better address the situation, ask questions to raise awareness, rather than saying. "I told you to" " you are the one that did this" Find a unique way to communicate to each other, make sure that you are always including respect in your communication. Never try to hurt or offend the person you are communicating with, it will never resolve a situation. It will only make the situation worst. Oh! "Always, always, address the little things that creeps up in your relationship" Please never ignore or dismiss it as "not important". These little things are the most distructive, when you dismiss them, they begin to grow into big monsters, then, one day a masive explosion. Almost as if one is building a brick wall, each little situation ignored, dismiss or left unresolved is a brick added to your wall. One day that wall is going to come down crushing with a big bang. The wall crash because thare are no real foundation, no real structure and no good material so there is no way it can stand. It has got to come down and believe me, it will. If you are reading this and you were ignoring the little things, I hope today will be the last day. Have a great life, enjoy your marriage, make the best of every minuite, you have only got one life. Oh!, no matter what belief you have , your marriage will never be the same without God being the head of it. There is only so much you can see and do. Some things, you just have to trust Him to do for you. He will, only, if you allow him to.

Friday, March 23, 2007

JUST TO SAY THANK YOU FOR VISITING!

THANK YOU FOR VISITING THIS WEBSITE, I HOPE YOU ARE ABLE TO TAKE AWAY SOMETHING WITH YOU. GOD BESS YOU, HAVE A BLESS AND PROSPEROUS LIFE. FILLED WITH ALL GOOD THINGS

I WAS LISTENING TO A MESSAGE?

I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE SOMETHING THAT I TAKE BACK WITH ME, I THOUGHT THIS WAS GREAT AND I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE IT WITH YOU.

IF YOU CURSE PROSPERITY YOU WILL ATTRACT LACK. SO EMBRACE YOUR PROSPERITY RECEIVE IT WITH GRATITUDE AND REAP ITS REWARD. IN OTHER WORDS BE CAREFULL OF THE WAY YOU SPEAK AND THE THINGS YOU SAY. LIFE AND DEATH IS IN THE POWER OF THE TONGUE. IN OTHER WORDS, WHEN YOU SPEAK, IT BECOMES, SO IF YOU SPEAK GOOD YOU WILL REAP LIFE, IF YOU SPEAK BAD OR EVIL YOU WILL REAP DISTRUCTION.

Do you notice? If things are not going the way we think it should be going, we speak negative. Understand this, we are actually speaking negitive into our situation, into our lives. Try speaking positive and see what happens.

Perhaps we speak like that because we doubt, and of course, this means that we only believe in the thing we can see, and because we can't see the good that is really there in the situation that seems so terrible, we dont really accept that it will ever get better. "Every thing you go through is only temporary and subject to change" always remember that. It will change, it is only for a moment. Give thanks for it. "All things work together for good to them that love GOD to them that are called for His purpose". I am learning how to give God thanks for all things. Inspite of the fact, that it seems as if it is terrible, because I realized that it must get that way to bring me to the point of success. I have learnt, that God must be glorified in my situation, and how can He be glorified if I never had a trial. If I never get sick, why would I need a doctor, If I never get hungry why would I need to search for food. So it is, in life, If I dont have a bad experience what do I have to share with others that are having bad experiences. Am I not suppose to edify encourage and uplift. How can I really do that, if I never had an experience, how can I identify with your pain if I never had pain. How can I tell you it is going to be alright if I never get to that point in life and know that it was only that God worked it out for me, and because I know this. Now I can truly say, it is going to be alright. I had been there and now I have overcome. I have acquired my testimony and only now, am I able or qualified to share. I can truly look you in the eye and say, it is well. It is going to be alright, just hang on in there, the reward is just around the corner.

My, my, my. Im getting excited up in here. Count it as a privilledge that you are found worthy to go to the next level. Your situation comes to take you to the nex level. It is a way or a means to your open door. Dont close it!

This is the part that many of us just simply dont understand. How can I give thanks, in my horrible situation? I am hurting up in here, no, no, you dont understand. You simply dont know my pain. You ought to being there, when I am going through. In the mid night hour, when my pillow is tear stained, when I have no one else to talk to.

Yea. I know. That is the whole purpose. You are never alone, when you dont see your friends, God step in, now, that is really what you need. He is the only one that can solve your problem. No one else can! "REMEMBER THAT"

Have you ever heard of foot print? when you think you are walking througt your worst situation, by yourself. God is carrying you. He knows, you could not go throught that path by yourself, so he interviene, just in time, to carry you, He is an on time God. You can depend on Him. He promise never to leave you nor forsake you, he will be with you until the very end, even until death. "Beleive me you can trust Him".

I remember, when I was home alone, and I was hurting, I felt as if I was going to go crazy, my sorrounding suddenly feeling clostophobic. Oh, my! I went to my "so called, trusting phone", to talk to sombody, oh my God, anybody. (has that ever happen to you before?) No one was to be found, I called so many of my friends, none to give me comfort, only then I realized that my comfort does not come from my friends, it comes only from God.

I went to sit on one of the steps on my stairs, and started to communicate with my Lord, I soon realized that God wanted me to trust in Him and only Him, I began to find comfort, solace, peace in my situation. I soon learned that I need to learn how to lean and depend on my Lord. If I ever needed to find comfort and rest for my weary soul, and believe me that was just the beginning, what I called the learning process. I am still learning. One thing for certain, it gets sweeter and sweeter every day. I learned how to say thank you for my worst situation, because I know, now, that It comes to make me stronger, to make my life a better one, it comes to mold me into a better person, it comes to give me an experience, which then gives me hope for better things, it comes to make me into that master piece that God wants me to be, It comes to give me boost to reach to higher heights and deeper depts. In other words it is a step for me to reach up to my next level. Thats why we say the enemy is our footstool, because he thinks, he comes to distroy us, but what he dont realize is that everytime he comes to knock us down, he is helping us to climb up to where we really need to be. So let us be thankful for our situations, when we say thanks we acknowledge that God is bigger that what ever we are going through and is more than able to sustain us, He said his grace is sufficient. We can always depend on Him, He never fail. He is always there, we are never alone. When we say thanks, we are being obedient to his command and he has no other choice but to bless us because we pleased him even in our worst situation. To God Be the Glory.

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LOSING WEIGHT! IT IS A BIG THING NOWADAYS!

Diet this diet that, what make you loose weight. I would believe that weight lost is not necessarily one action. I would believe, it is a combination of things put together to get that desired effect.

DOES IT REALLY MATTER WHAT ONE EAT TO LOOSE WEIGHT?

Everyone needs to have fun eating what they enjoy. I would think that what really makes the different is the amount one eat and the balance. Example, eat, drink pleanty of water, excersixe, enjoy what you like to eat in moderation. Exercise, if one tries to loose weight and dont exercise, then one can be left with a lot of skin hanging down looking very unatractively, so one should not just think about eating less, whilst that is considered, it need to be backed up with some form of exercise. Start out slowly, first walking, then a little jogging, and gradually increase and improve with new changes take up a new sports. The most important is to have fun doing it and enjoy your changes. Get a friend that is possitive and motivated to join with you the last thing you need is discouragement, negative criticitism.

THANK GOD FOR GENUINE FRIENDS!

Do you realise how it is difficult to find genuine friends nowadays? Do you have a lot of friends? How many of them are genuine? I woke up with the realization this morning that sometimes you have a lot of people that you are genuine friend to, but sometimes, you will find that most of the people that should be friends to you are not really genuine. My, that hurt in the natural.
However, I soon realized that it really depends on your purpose in life. Like the prodigal son, lots of people attatched themselves to you for different reasons visa versa. In his case it was because he had a lot of money, that he was spending without the use of much wisdom. It was not long after he realized, how many of those people was true and genuine. In his case he found out the hard way. All his money was gone and he was a very lonely, friendless person who, later on, ended up eating from the swines and sharing desperate meals in pigs whalla.
My, My, that was a very sad encounter. But isn't God awesome? He uses the natural things to teach us the spiritual. So it is, when we are lead away, when we allow all manner of distractions into our lives to occupy the parts of our lives that belongs to the Lord. The beauty about God is that, He is like the prodigal son's father that ran to meet him with stretched out arms. God's comforting arms were nailed to the cross, filled with undiluted Love and Compassion! arms stretched out , always welcoming us back to him, with his love pouring out, all over us, as he bids us to come
What seemed like a sad realization this morning had turned into splender. It seemed so terrible at first, when I was looking in the natural, but as I began to walk the path that God had prepared, I soon realized that it was to the Glory of God. He wanted to show me some better things he had for me and He also wanted to show me that He always provides for us in ways in which we can never understand. He has a way of taking you to the place in your circumstances where you can see Him, and only Him. He shows you too, that when you think you are locking, you really have more than enough. One simply, must allow him to lead you into all He has for you. This morning he brought that out to me so clearly whilst using my genuine friend to help me to look. It was amaizing. sadness, suddenly turns into pure joy, as I realized that God just wanted to take me to another level. Isn't he simply amazing. Thank you for genuine friends Lord. Remember, you may not have a lot of genuine friends, they are very hard to find now a days, but if you only have one, embrace that one. God have a way of giving you the things you need especially when you dont realize the better things he have for you. Thank you Lord.

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Wednesday, March 21, 2007

LOVE! WHAT IS LOVE?

Love is patience, love is kind, love does not behave itself badly, thinketh no evil, cause no hurt, is not easily povoked, is not easily puffed up. Is caring, sharing, showing tenderness, and understanding. Love sees the best in you even when you are wearing a veil. Love does not pretend and is genuine at all times. Love think Goooood. LOVE NEVER FAILS! YOU CAN ALWAYS DEPEND ON IT. IN THE GOOD TIMES AND THE BAD. LOVE IS FOR EVER. IT IS SIMPLY UNCONDITIONAL.
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Friday, March 9, 2007

ALWAYS WONDER WHY THINGS SEEMS TO STOP!

Too much negative. Have you ever tried to do something to improve your life and everyone around you, tells you, you are not good enough! it is not going to happen. Well that is a lie from the pit of hell. You can accomplish. Time to start focusing on what you can do rather than what you think you cant or what others tell you, you can't. There is no such thing as, you can't. Where there is a will there is a way. So buckle up, lets go for a ride. Could be a possible rough one with all the emotions and excitements, but the beauty is that, you can ride anyway.
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