FIRST OF ALL I NEED TO KNOW WHY ANYONE WOULD WANT TO HURT SOMEONE THEY SAY THEY LOVE.
What I cant understand is, why do we stay in the hurting relationship? Is it because we dont know what the next one is going to be like? Is it because one just keep hoping that things will get better? I suppose that when one is in a relationship, they want it to work, so they just keep hoping that it would. I know of a situation. The relationship was very abusive, physically, mentally and verbally, however, this young lady just kept hoping it would work. She discribed it as being the feeling of guit and shame to share her pain with the outsiders(meaning anyone that is not living in her home). The abuse kept going on for 9 long years and she could not leave. She was affraid to leave, to start over again, esespecially when she had young children. She was not working at the time, her main duties was a homemaker. She took care of her family. Most of her time was spent in her home. She loved her husband and family and she wanted to keep her home together. When she was not able to bear the pain anylonger, she had to eventually start over. I supposed, no one can stay on the outside and really say, why would anyone do that? I supposed one have to be there to know. There is a saying, "who feels it knows it". The only person that can really help or advise is someone who has already being there and can identify with their pain. The only person that can really help someone in this situation is you, yourself. the question is Do I deserve this? No. Is there someone out there that will love and care for me? Yes. Am I supposed to stay in an abusive relationship? No. What happen if I leave? you will get the person that is there for you, but you will have to let go of the hurting relationship and all its baggages to go into a new relationship. To get the things that belongs to you, you will have to let go off the things that dont belong to you.
Everyone has someone special out there that will love them back. YOU DO TOO.
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I have to completely agree with you. There are a number of things that cause hurt in marriages. These things just should not bbe.
However, I would add, what if the victim is a male and his life is endangered? perhaps he was lied upon and has suffer a number of consequences because of the lies.
Is the fact that a male a victim less detrimental than females that are done wrong? Just wondering.
Thank you for your support. You are so right, it simply should not be. You know I cannot understand how people can honestly say that they love some one does such nasty things in the name of Love, The question is do people really know how to love. How can one say they love someone and call them such nasty things, or curse at them or even tell lies on them just to hurt them. I wonder!???
Answering your question. No! It really doesn't matter if the victim is male or female. A victim is a victim. It is appalling, something that really should never happen. I understand the pain. I can imagine how one must feel in a situation of a marriage where there should be mutual love and respect, but instead one because of vindictiveness hurt by lying and deception. Let us pray for the marriage, that they will be as God intended them to be. We need to pray for the families that are still married that God will keep them and that they will be peaceful happy and filled with love. God Bless you.
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