SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!

What is your opinion on sex before marriage? why should one indulge in sex before marriage? One of the draw backs for women is that if they allow men to try them out all the time, can you imagine how many men will have that one woman before she finally get a husband that will actually honour her in marriage? Todays society promotes sex before marriage, this notion, about can the person please you? would one not say, it is a lie from the pit of hell? One can argue the point. Lets say these people were virgins! how would they know the differents? wouldnt they just have to learn how to please each other from the beginning? so what is the big deal? is it not about learning how to please the one you love and want to spent quality time with? so then, what is this about testing the person first? how did this come about? how can it be stopped? There are always better ways of doing the right thing?